Life Update | I’ve Been Struggling
Happy new month!
I mentioned before how I felt I had outgrown fashion blogging. Don’t get me wrong, I still love fashion going through the different shows at New York Fashion Week and Paris Fashion Week has reignited my passion for fashion. What I want to be able to do is blog in my own unique voice without feeling like to be good enough I need to go the route of the many amazing fashion bloggers out there.
Another struggle that I have been having is the whole idea of seeking validation from all the wrong places. In the past, I would put up posts, not only here on my blog but also on my social media, and then I sit down and wait to see how many likes each post garnered. I found myself placing my self-worth on how much clout my posts got and whenever I would post something that didn’t garner as many likes, I would feel like I wasn’t good enough. I realised this wasn’t healthy and started staying away from social media. I felt that this was the only way for me to remind myself that I am worth much more than a few likes on my Instagram or Facebook.
The other thing that I have sort of acquired a distaste for is sharing too much about my life online. I’m not a big time blogger but I still craved for privacy: to be able to sort out my ish without everybody knowing that I am going through a hard time. Try as I might to keep my online space positive and away from any personal drama, I found that my posts almost always ended up reflecting my state of mind at any given time. There is also the need to constantly put up posts just so that I can keep up with the social media gurus out there. I didn’t like this pressure. I still don’t. A goal I have given myself is to put up posts when I want to and not to keep going back to check how many people have liked them.
I am also working on creating good posts here on the blog and if possible revive my Youtube channel and to focus more on what I am passionate about (fashion and personal development) without feeling like I have to do certain things just to gain popularity. I don’t want to actively seek out popularity. I want to go back to creating content because I have something useful to share with you and because I enjoy it tremendously.
On the 12th of September we marked six years of this blog. I still can’t believe how much time has flown by. I have seriously thought about quitting these last couple of months but I feel like this blog is such an important part of me, my outlet, that if I quit, I will be left with a void that I might not be able to fill. So instead of quitting, I will reduce the number of posts and categories that I put up. I want to work on improving the quality of each post in terms of the information I share and how I put my thoughts across. I want to take it one day at a time so that I don’t feel like I am putting too much pressure on myself and consequently, have another creators’ block. Therefore, posts will be going up on Mondays Wednesdays and Fridays.
Thank you for your continued support.
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